What if your desire is not a problem to be managed — but a doorway?
What if your body, exactly as it is, already holds the wisdom you've been looking for?
What if there is a circle of men — vulnerable, skilled, and unguarded — waiting to meet you in the truth of who you are?
SACRED is for the man who is done performing. Done dimming. Done waiting for permission to live an erotically alive, spiritually grounded, deeply connected life. It is a retreat — and it is an initiation.
Set in the foothills of an extinct volcano on the edge of San Miguel de Allende, SACRED is six days and six nights of ceremony, conscious touch, men's circle, and somatic exploration — held by some of the most respected practitioners in the field.
You will be challenged. You will be held. You will be witnessed. You will learn the art of surrender and the nuance of dominance. You will explore the topography of your own desire with men who will not flinch, will not project, and will not ask you to be smaller than you are.
And because we gather across Día de los Muertos, the most sacred week in the Mexican calendar, we'll close the retreat in ceremony — face paint, candlelight, marigolds, ancestors — honoring everything (and everyone) that brought you here.
The combination of intensive one-on-one bodywork, intimate men's group, and ceremonial container we offer is not available anywhere else.
Private cold plunge, sauna, hiking trails, and indoor/outdoor sanctuary spaces for rest, integration, and meditation. The land does half the work.
Sound healing, traditional Temescal sweat ceremony, opening and closing rituals — held by local shamans and our team.
Spacious bedrooms, outdoor showers, dreamy landscape views — choose private or share with another retreatant. And yes, cuddles with the resident rescue donkeys when you want them.
Four complimentary private sessions with a highly trained practitioner dedicated to your body, your nervous system, and your desires.
Honest, witnessed dialogue with practitioners and peers. Held daily, without performance — the laboratory where vulnerability becomes brotherhood.
An optional, transformative shoot with a sensitive photographer. Being witnessed through the lens — and seeing yourself revealed — is a healing not to be missed. (Booked separately.)
Every day is choreographed — and every day has space to breathe. Mornings for the body, afternoons for the work, evenings for the circle.
Optional embodied practice, breathwork, or a walk through the botanical garden.
Local, plant-based, made with intention by the Sagrada kitchen.
Vulnerable, honest, witnessed. Where the real work begins.
Private sessions with your assigned practitioner, or a group erotic embodiment lab.
Cold plunge, sauna, hammock, journaling, integration, or simply doing nothing.
A shared meal followed by an evening container — sound healing, ceremony, or play.
Sagrada means sacred. Set on the foothills of an extinct volcano just outside San Miguel de Allende, this nature-inspired holistic ranch is considered one of the purest destinations in the region.
The volcanic land is alive with healing energy and crowned by a 300-year-old ancient botanical garden — the property's pride and joy. Stroll past rescue donkeys, watch the sunrise from your private suite, sweat in the Temescal, and float in the cold plunge as the afternoon light turns gold.
Sagrada is intentionally a sober, plant-based sanctuary — no smoking, alcohol, or animal meat is served on the property. This is part of why we chose it. The container is clean. The nervous system can finally land.
Ritual. Brotherhood. Laughter. Embodiment. A glimpse of what is held inside the SACRED container.
The most sacred and electric week in the Mexican calendar — when the veil between the living and the dead is thin, and marigolds light the path home for ancestors.
San Miguel de Allende transforms. The streets fill with candlelight, sugar skulls, and reverence. We will close our retreat in ceremony with face painters, themed attire, and a vibrant night honoring our beloved dead and the parts of ourselves we are willing, finally, to bury — and the parts we are ready to be reborn into.
This is the inaugural year. The container is forming now.
"Completely unplanned, entirely impromptu, I know no other country and culture where an artist would so freely open their studio for a spur-of-the-moment design party. It's celebratory and even a little chaotic; it's also perfect." — Vogue, on San Miguel de Allende
Court is a Somatic Sex Educator, Surrogate Partner Intern, and Sacred Intimate. A member of the World Association of Sex Coaches and founder of The Bodyvox, he guides individuals and relationships toward more honest, embodied, erotically alive lives.
Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Sex Educator, and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. Founder of Skyclad in 2005, Ron "brought naked yoga to Canada" and has offered men's yoga, erotic embodiment workshops, and retreats from his Vancouver Island home and worldwide ever since.
Certified Sexological Bodyworker and Somatic Sex Educator, with training in Thai Massage, Cranio Sacral Therapy, and Yoga. Through a heart-centered approach and a deep commitment to erotic inquiry, Jaiar has been guiding men for over 20 years.
A magical week of touch, introspection, and inspiration — thank you for sharing your intuitive hands and expansive heart with me. I am deeply grateful for the work you do and the change you're making in the world. Thank you also for your earnest allyship.
Court's retreat in Mexico was life-affirming and transforming for me. I appreciate the level of detail that went into every aspect of the retreat: the one-on-one sessions, the group work, the excellent facilitation, the wonderful group of men, the beautiful place. I restored, renewed, and learned a great deal. I would highly recommend participating in this and other work Court leads. I plan to do more of these retreats in the future.
By committing a week of my life to the intuitive hands of Court Vox in San Miguel de Allende, I was able to explore the intersections of spirituality and sexuality. To delve into sensations unrehearsed and ecstasies unexplored. To chart paths adorned with sumptuous sound, sensual slowness, erotic energies and the sweet community of queer men. I am grateful — for this moment, for life!
I am enjoying reviewing and reliving the memories of our work together. So many things have had influence on me, and in processing the dynamics, I am very consciously working on identifying, understanding and communicating my emotions more fully. You led me to better understand my desires & needs and accept those as special facets of who I am. I am eternally grateful for you sharing yourself and all you did to help me along on this journey.
We curate every cohort carefully. Read below honestly. If you nod through the left column, book a call.
With only 8–12 spots, SACRED fills through conversation. The next step is a free 15-minute exploratory call with Court — no pressure, no pitch. Just an honest conversation about whether this is your retreat.
Book Your Exploratory Call →Or email hello@thebodyvox.com